over my head

have you ever felt like what you were doing- or should be doing is the right thing but you just don’t feel happy doing it? or have you ever met someone and you just knew that they were perfect for you since they have a perfect character, a great family- everything, and really you should be happy, but it’s just not what you want?
that’s how i’m feeling right now… maybe i just have to think things over some more but i’d really apreciate feedback^^